I've always known that my mother and I share many traits in common, but Ian has pointed out some new evidence to convince me that I'm just like my mother! Most of the proof comes from situations dealing with trains or buses. I've decided to blog a few of these to humor my mom and to highlight some fundamental differences in mine and Ian's character.
Proof #1: We arrive at La Spezia with only 8 minutes to change trains. I push my way through the crowd, run to the board to figure out which train we need to get on and realize we need to run to rail #1. I tell Ian we have to run, scope out the place, see the stairs that take us underground, and again push through the crowds to get to the train. We arrive at the train when I hear (muffled by all of the other unfamiliar noises and sounds) something about a change of rail for the train in #1. I grab Ian and tell him we have to run to rail #5, back to the stairs, underground, and again pushing against the crowds. We arrive at rail #5, the sea of passangers boarding the train, the whitle blows (which symbolizes the train leaving) and I start to push our way through again (this time using my elbows if necessary). We make our way onto the train which is so crowded that we can't find a seat in our carriage. The train takes off and we look at each other: are we even on the right train? Ian said it would be my fault if we were headed to the wrong place...but, we would have still been reading the departure board if we had waited on him to decide which train to board!
Proof #2: We read the departure board and realize the train leaves in 2 minutes from rail #2. I grab my bag, look for the underground tunnel and begin to run (leaving Ian behind, of course). He catches up as I emerge on the other side of the tracks (still running for the train). The whistle blows and the doors shut right infront of my nose. I turn around (meekly but not defeated) look at Ian's confused face, turn once more and run for the train doors which I try to open vigorously as it begins to slowly move. I gave up. Ian claimed I never said aloud that we would try to catch that train and I just started running around like a lunatic -- I thought my actions were enough communication!
Proof #3: This one just accentuates our spirit of improved communication and collaboration. After the last incident, we agreed that I would have to say something if I decided we would try to catch a train (I couldn't just run without him and assume he would follow). We look at the departure board and the train is leaving in about 5 minutes. I say "let's get on it" so we begin to run. This time, having heard my thoughts aloud, Ian takes the lead as we run. We have to find the stairs, go underground, and find the right rail. He begins to run towards the stairs -- the ones leading us out of the train station. I stop him, take the lead, take us to the right stairs and half way through the tunnel I realized I had misread my watch. We missed the train - by about an hour!
The list goes on and on - we are getting better at this public transportation thing...and in the process have realized that I may truly be 'igualita a mi mama'!